What I´ve gathered from years of comics and months on tumblr.
I’ve no idea how to respond to this.
I’m not gonna lie, it’s about half right, but I’m pretty sure most of the time Bruce is Fanon’d as always being 100% BROOSE ie “I LOVE YOU FAMILY! WHAT ES BATMENS I AM HERE 100% emotioanal SUPOORT!”
There’s a lot of really great nuanced portrayals and characterization in fandom, but ngl, the second thing happens a lot.